“Be kind” “Be kind” have almost become cliches to some people; those words you hear all the time. But being care; being kind with the things you say, the things you do, isn’t really something anyone with compassion has to be taught, has to be coerced to do. And everyday we see why kindness is important, why as humans we need eachother; we owe eachother the duty to be kind with our words and actions.
Happy new year reader’s!! It’s been a while. I took a Christmas/new year’s break. I’m back with amazing contents! I pray for God’s direction for us all, throughout this year. Amen.
Today’s thought is just something I really thought I should put out.
Occasionally, when I’m ending a thought, or somewhere in the middle, I infuse certain words like; be nice, be kind, spread positivity, all of that.
Just thinking randomly recently, it occurred to me that there might be two sets of readers.
The first set, read and understand the words, they actually read meaning to it.
The second set, probably skip those words, or just glance through it. To them they are just things I say, words I use to end a write up. You know, some sort of formality.
But you see, it really isn’t any of the latter. They’re neither just things I say, or a formality. I say those words with everything in me. It stems from personal experiences with people, and things I have watched people go through.
Sometimes when I’m writing a musing down, I want to refrain from saying those words. I start to think “maybe I say it toomuch, maybe I should just end it here, without using those words, or probably just say something else”.
But I make the decision to still say it, especially when it’s so important and really resonates with the musing I’m putting out, especially on the days where those words make so much more sense to me, than it has ever made before.
In the age we live in especially, there is so much depression around. It’s like flu passed around. People are more sensitive in this age, than any other. There is so much now, that could trigger a breakdown. Being careful; being kind with the things you say, the things you do, isn’t really something to be taught.
I’ve realized that as alot of people are sensitive, alot of other people are apathetic to people’s emotions and feelings.
People are so quick to use the now popular saying ‘no one owes you anything’ to cover up for their being mean and insensitive; being selfish.
As much as that saying to an extent is true and applicable in certain situations, because we’re all fighting our personal battles and sometimes in life, we just have to put ourselves first before anyother person, sometimes we have to do things that please only us, and make us happy, even when others aren’t exactly pleased.
I still strongly believe that as humans, we owe eachother the duty to be kind with our words and actions, to be generous, to be there for eachother, to lift eachother up.
Sometimes people go through things that has nothing to do with us, it could just be situations; life going terribly, but as humans beings, we compound the already horrible situations by being unkind, by being hurtful.
Our words sometimes push people beyond their limit.
Be kind to people even when you do not know them, or their stories.
Yes, don’t only be kind when you know someone is going through a hard time. Be kind all the time, be kind to everyone.
Treat people like they matter, treat people how you’d like to be treated.
Let your words be what brings light to someone’s life, let your words be healing.
We should all try to be sensitive to people’s emotions, do not force people to go into depression or worsen situations for them.
As we live through this year, the saying ‘no one owes you anything’ should not be used as an excuse to do as we please to people, to feel like we are not beholden to anyone and so we might as well live like no one else matters.
I hope today, everyone reads these words and it makes so much more sense than it has ever made.
I hope it speaks to us.
I hope it makes us see things differently.
Love from me to you!
*What do you think about today’s thought? What contributions do you have for today’s discuss? Have you made a decision to be kind today?*
Check out- https://enunsmusings.art.blog/2020/12/22/educating-yourself-and-observing/
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